Am I Go0d En0ugh For Him???? @__@

                                          
            

When you begin to have feelings for somebody new, it is a natural and common reaction to wonder if you are good enough for that person. You hold the other person in such high esteem and think he or she can do no wrong, that person is perfect in your eyes. Because you do not yet know the other person's flaws and shortcomings "you will" and you know your own so very well, it makes sense that you would question whether or not you are good enough for him. Surely, you think, there are other people out there who would more closely match your crush's level of "perfection".

When you find yourself feeling insecure about what you think you have to offer this person,try to be gentle with yourself and reflect on all your positive qualities. Think of all the things the two of you have in common. Most importantly, BE YOURSELF remember,confidence is very appealing. I think it is one of the most important factors that determines whether or not we are attracted to another person. Know that you are good enough.....

We all love the musics and movies where outcasts end up getting the guy or the girl because,once they are given a chance,everyone sees how great they are. The nerd gets the girl or the girl everyone makes fun of turns out to be the real beauty..The point is...we all have it in us,including you!!..."hmmm...thank you so much for your opinion..."